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Surrogate

I have four kids and want to become a surrogate for someone that wants A child. online all you can find are people willing to spend 10,000$ OR free organizations to donate to that put ridiculous criteria on it.

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Please if you’d like to comment negatively look up the criteria for helping someone and tell me if you match.

My question is where can I find kind people that want a child


SOMETHING TO TELL THE PEOPLE OF EDMONTON?

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  1. Have you ever thought of open adoption? Maybe adoption clinics can direct you in the right area but there are so many families there awaiting to be chosen to be birthparents. Adoption Options Edmonton…

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    1. Andrea McLellan there r many surrogates who have already commented myself included that can direct her exactly where she needs to go to get started an adoption agency will not direct her in the direction to surrogacy … now it’s just a matter of her reaching out to any one of us ….
      I’m currently on my
      Second journey and would have never gone to an adoption agency to be come a surrogate as they strictly work with adopting out children … surrogacy is carrying a child for some one who can’t most cases a gestational carrier

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    2. Tina-Marie Carriere well thank god you can read. Surely I can as well. I did say “maybe direct you” key word DIRECT you. These types of communities are all very familiar of one another. I’d think a professional organization may have some insight to where she can go. As looking online can be over whelming and have to judge people’s intent. But thanks.

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    3. Most people who want to be a surrogate aren’t willing to give up babies for adoption. I would love to be a surrogate but could never put my own babies up for adoption.

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    4. Andrea, that’s how we’re taking it. OP asked for starter info on how to get in touch with people who want a mom to carry their fertilized egg. She most certainly did not ask about open adoption. She wants to help a couple have their dream baby, not adopt out her fifth kid. Which OP didn’t even state she was preggo, so I’m really not sure why you suggested open adoption. Just sayin’, man.

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    5. Sally Sicko I said open adoption agencies may know where to DIRECT her. These agencies are placed with social workers. Social workers who are not just there working for open adoption but social workers who work with infertility etc. Most of these social workers work within hospitals. It’s called having connections. I was giving the OP an option to seek. Did you have any wonderful ideas? Welcome to networking.

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    6. I think it’s the wording in your first sentence that has people thinking you are suggesting she look into an open adoption as opposed to contacting them to see if they can direct her.

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    7. Laura Campanella that was a question that started it yes. As I’ve known woman who have looked into both. Following that it clearly stated the agency may be able to direct her regarding what she was posting about. Nonetheless, too many of these pages and especially woman get all pissy. Why as woman can we not embrace and respect suggestions and opinions especially when they aren’t negative.

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    8. Irene Cindy Ouimette this is the problem with this world! Too many people shaking their fingers when others simply just want to give as much options and advice. I didn’t come here to read who all has responded to her inquiry. I came here and read what she had to say. I replied to that. Smh…Some woman I tell yah.

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  2. Honestly, joint adoption pages on Facebook is a great start!
    Surrogacy is the most amazing thing and means the most to people trying to have a baby. Word of mouth is also a great way as well.
    My husband and I have been trying for 6 years and have had two people offer to be a surrogate, but sadly all backed out because they were afraid of attachment.

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    1. Jennifer Anne Unger I personally do not know the feeling so I won’t pretend I know. But I’ve seen it happen to others. Makes me want to be a surrogate for so many deserving families ❤️

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    2. Sry to hear … it’s definitely a matter of being in the right mind set …. currently working on my second surrogacy journey hope ur dreams come to life for u soon Hun

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    1. Thanks Brett.
      I know there is support and it’s so comforting but so hard to accept that I will never be able to enjoy it like most woman can.
      I guess I just dwell on the shit that can’t be changed instead of moving forward.
      But I am trying.

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  3. I can not give my husband the one thing a wife should be able to give her husband.
    We are wanting to start the surrogacy process but want to save money before starting as it is such an expensive “project” as we call it.
    If any of you amazing woman who have gone through the surrogacy process can you please pm me on how the process works.
    I have spent the last 12 years beating myself up over this unfortunate situation and want to know there is a light at the end of the loooong dark tunnel.

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    1. Your post breaks my heart. You are not alone. Sadly many woman go through this. I know that doesn’t help. May your project be fulfilling and may it shed some light into that dark tunnel ❤️

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    2. Andrea McLellan I am going to be 30 in a few months and always saw myself as a mommy at 23 but as time went on I got older and the harder it becomes for me.
      I only recently have found myself being able to talk about it. I don’t think it will ever become easy for me as I am such a mom at heart but I try to stay positive and tell myself that I “may” eventually become a mom.

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  4. I’m going through the process right now of beckming a surrogate. Go through an agency. I’m with Any Fertility. Feel free to pm me if you’d like some info. I’m also a mother of 4, and it’s important that we’re protected for our family’s sake. There are a lot ins and outs that a clinic can help with.

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  5. You are a beautiful soul, and have an amazing heart. I sincerely hope you and a deserving couple find each other.
    The gift you give to that couple is the greatest give anyone could give them. Thank you for your considerable generosity.

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  6. Canadian surrogate organization is a good place to do this that what I am going threw I am right now 25 week 6 days pregnant with a child that belongs to a couple in Toronto 🙂 if u want u can message me

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  7. I am in need of a surrogate but I can’t afford the average cost of $60,000. I have been searching for help and trying to fundraise for 2 years and I haven’t even reached $300. I don’t know where to go for help. We have been trying to conceive for 7 years and I am unable to get pregnant naturally so I am having to do Iui in order to get pregnant. I finally got pregnant last year twice and both babies died before 9 weeks. I can’t hold the babies. I need help.

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  8. I was a gestational surrogate for 3 gorgeous babies. I went through a Canadian Organization called Canadian Surrogacy Options, they’re located in Guelph, ontario. Amazing organization. I never felt pressured or over whelmed, amd they took care of any issues or concerns I had with my IPs (Intended Parents). If you want to know more pm me.

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